摘要
目的考察大学生的单恋情况及其与成人依恋风格之间的关系。方法对217名大学生施测自编的单恋情况调查问卷和亲密关系体验经历量表(ECR)。结果①70%的被调查者报告至少有1-2次的单恋体验,男性的单恋次数显著多于女性(t=3.56,P〈0.001);②单恋者报告第一次的单恋主要集中在小学和初中,男性发生第-次单恋的时间显著早于女性(t=-3.76,P〈0.001);⑧有60%以上的被调查者报告最近1次单恋持续时间为1年以内;④大学生最近1次单恋对象主要为同学/同事关系或者朋友关系,占总人数80%以上;⑤吸引单恋者的主要是对方的性格、外貌、能力和共同兴趣;⑥成人依恋的焦虑维度与单恋次数呈显著正相关(r=0.14,P〈0.05),与第-单恋发生时间呈显著负相关(r=-0.13,P〈0.05),与最近1次单恋发生时间呈显著正相关(r=0.25,P〈0.001),不同类型的成人依恋在单恋体验上存在差异。结论单恋是大学生普遍体验到的一种特殊的恋爱体验并且与单恋者本人的依恋风格存在-定关系。
Objective To investigate college students' unrequited love and its relationship with adult attachment. Methods A total of 217 college students were administered with the Unrequited Love Questionnaire and the Experiences in Close Relationships Inventory. Results ①Seventy percent of college students had experienced unrequited love at least 1-2 times,and male students reported more unrequited love times than female students (t = 3.56,P〈0. 001). ②Their first unrequited love began in primary or middle school, and male students reported unrequited love experience earlier than female students (t =-3.76, P〈 0. 001). ③Over 60% of college students reported their unrequited love lasted within one year. ④Over 80% of the would--be lover and the be-- loved were classmates or friends. ⑤The most attractive aspects of the be--love were character,physical attraction,capability and similar hobbies.⑥The attachment anxiety correlated with the times of unrequited love(r=0.14 ,P〈0.05) ,the onset of last unre- quited love (r= 0.14,P〈 0. 05)and the duration of last unrequited love (r=-0. 13,P〈0.05). Different attachment style differed in unrequited love experiences. Conclusion Most college students experience unrequited love, and adult attachment styles influences the unrequited love experience.
出处
《中国健康心理学杂志》
2013年第10期1584-1587,共4页
China Journal of Health Psychology
关键词
人格心理学
大学生
单恋
成人依恋
Personality psychology
College students
Unrequited love
Adult attachment