“圆满人生”只是一种祈盼和祝愿。自古人生谁无痛?本文作者是一位美国人,他列举了以下人生痛苦:such as the death of a close friend or relative, rape, incest(乱伦),a home fire or a painful break-up,这里所列仅人生痛苦之一隅...“圆满人生”只是一种祈盼和祝愿。自古人生谁无痛?本文作者是一位美国人,他列举了以下人生痛苦:such as the death of a close friend or relative, rape, incest(乱伦),a home fire or a painful break-up,这里所列仅人生痛苦之一隅而已。但是,你如何对待这些人生之苦?是铭记于心,并时时“重温”,使之成为open memories?还是彻底封存,置于脑后,使之成为closed memories?读罢本文,你也许会幡然醒悟。因为open memories有如下罪状: Students who had open memories of traumatic events scored lower on questionnaires measuring self-confidence than students with closed memories of traumatic events or students who had never experienced trauma. Students with open memories also reported more trips to the doctor. 常读此类文章,我的辨证思维也会有所长进。比如,文中的这句写地何等好啊: But bringing closure to a past event does not necessarily mean that you have to be brutally honest with yourself. Beike said that people often remember events somewhat differently than how they actually happened.】展开更多
文摘“圆满人生”只是一种祈盼和祝愿。自古人生谁无痛?本文作者是一位美国人,他列举了以下人生痛苦:such as the death of a close friend or relative, rape, incest(乱伦),a home fire or a painful break-up,这里所列仅人生痛苦之一隅而已。但是,你如何对待这些人生之苦?是铭记于心,并时时“重温”,使之成为open memories?还是彻底封存,置于脑后,使之成为closed memories?读罢本文,你也许会幡然醒悟。因为open memories有如下罪状: Students who had open memories of traumatic events scored lower on questionnaires measuring self-confidence than students with closed memories of traumatic events or students who had never experienced trauma. Students with open memories also reported more trips to the doctor. 常读此类文章,我的辨证思维也会有所长进。比如,文中的这句写地何等好啊: But bringing closure to a past event does not necessarily mean that you have to be brutally honest with yourself. Beike said that people often remember events somewhat differently than how they actually happened.】
